When we were young children my Mom would take us to ST. Mary's Church in Willimantic & ST. James in Manchester & a Church in Maine & tell us if you light Candles & say prayers it makes those prayers extra special. Even though I say a prayer daily & I Miss Her Everyday, I'm lighting this candle & saying a prayer because today is Her 95th Birthday & I Love & Miss Her so much more today than I thought was even humanly possible.