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Mamba Mentality posted a symbolic gesture
Tuesday, November 17, 2020
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I hope you continue to shine your light and watch over us. I know you'd be proud of how much Cooper has improved at Basketball. I'm confident he will make his dream a reality. Through hard work and the grace of God, anything is possible.
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Mamba Mentality planted a tree in memory of Lisa Holmes
Friday, May 29, 2020
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Cooper taught me how to play basketball and ignited my love for the sport. With your guidance, I know that he will make his NBA dream a reality. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Thursday, January 25, 2018
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Thursday, January 25, 2018
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Thursday, January 25, 2018
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John Hoffpauir and family lit a candle
Saturday, April 16, 2016
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We will always cherish the memories Lisa help made in the dugout at Taylor Field for our children, cheering for them as they ran from one base to another, and lovingly telling them to behave as they kicked dirt at each other. May God's peace with you, Cooper, and family.
Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints.Psalm 116:15
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Jim and Kathleen posted a condolence
Thursday, April 14, 2016
Dear Lisa, We will always miss you in Summer when we planted flowers and in Winter when we made snow sculptures. In fact, we will always miss you. We're sure you know that there is no replacing you - not for ourselves and your family and hundreds of friends, but also for all the people you touched in your too brief time on Earth. We promise to do everything possible to help Cooper and keep the circle of life turning. Rest in peace - we'll see you on the other side of the Jordan. Love, Jim and Kathleen
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Joann posted a condolence
Thursday, April 14, 2016
As a volunteer for my church, I took communion to Lisa 3 or 4 times. She made a lasting impression. She was such a joy to talk to and gave me more to contemplate regarding faith and spirituality than I ever brought to her. She touched my life and I will remember her fondly. I will keep all of you in my prayers. So sorry for your loss.
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Dee C. posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 5, 2016
So sorry for your loss. I hope that you will find strength in the love and support of family and friends. And I pray that you will find comfort in God's promises to soon undo all 'tears, mourning, pain and even death' Rev. 21:4 and to bring an end to sickness (Isa 33:24). Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
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James Holmes posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 29, 2016
A Celebration Of The Life Of Lisa Holmes I wish to thank all here to celebrate the life of Lisa. When I found out about Lisa’ passing I was at work. A co-worker said it was sad that she died so young; I responded cent anni a dicci. For those that don’t know Italian, that is 110 years, a response to a birthday toast wishing for 100 years life. While her life was short in years, it was full of love and zest. Lisa wished to come home to Connecticut to be laid to rest beside her parents and services to be held here in St James church. For those that did not know, while living in CT, Lisa was a member of St Bartholomew’s, St Francis of Assisi, as well as St James. I tried to explain that St Frances or St Bartholomew’s would be easier, but we would abide by her wishes. This was the church of her youth and where she was confirmed. So that was that. Lisa did so much for us all, that I knew the pallbearers did not mind the 35 steps to the bring Lisa here today. The Dream Lisa was to be a caregiver, plain and simple. She started her life of caregiving as a pinkie. When she told her instructor’s in high school she wanted to be a nurse, they tried to discourage her. Note to all never tell Lisa she can’t do something. She went to MCC to improve herself, transferring eventually to Salve Regina College. When the sisters of Mercy told her she needed to complete a 5th year, she double majored in nursing and management. And when Georgetown University told her she could not complete the nurse practitioner program in 18 months she proved them wrong. This was her dream and she strove to complete her dream with all her God given talents. A lesson from Lisa, don’t let others determine your path; reach for the moon, because if you miss you might hit a star. She practiced nursing with passion. As an RN, she worked on a head and neck surgical floor, head nurse in a surgical step down, community health care coordinator. In the community health care role she tried to holistically. People were not just in need of diets to lose weight but they had other issues. She coordinated care with dieticians, exercise programs with therapist and group therapy programs to deal with patient emotional issues. This was over and above what the program called for but she knew that was what was needed. While building up this program, Lisa spent 18 months providing care to her parents, in their battle against cancer. As a nurse practitioner she worked in a mental health practice, a walk-in clinic, community outreach van, internal medicine and pediatrics. What do all these positions have in common, service to others. Holiday Memories There are 2 things you can say about holidays with Lisa, 1) she will be late, and 2) always make more food for unexpected guests. For those that grew up in a Holmes house, having the extra food was never a problem. Lisa never had an internal clock when it came to holidays. You see, she had so many friends and family, she always would reach out to them. This had a turbulent affect when we were growing up. Monica finally found a simple solution; tell Lisa that she was to be at the house 1 hour ahead of time. Why get frustrated, it’s the holiday. She will eventually be there. Lisa always felt people should celebrate holidays together, not be alone, you see this of our calling to reach out to others. One Easter, at my house, Lisa was late of course (this was prior to the 1 hour rule), and she had invited a family to dinner. It was a young family with a newborn, alone for the holiday. So we extended the table and added additional plates. Monica could tell you of similar accounts at her house. Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter, the story was the same, Lisa is late and there may be some last minute guests. Monica and I would like to thank Lisa for this gift of unexpected guests. You see this is how I met one of my best friends Joe and his wife Abby, and Monica and I met Veronica and Paul. Without Lisa our lives would have been diminish for not knowing them. I think our most memorable Easter would be the trip to Punta Canna. Lisa planned the trip and wanted a shared memory for us all. Who could forget the gorgeous beaches, the Michael Jackson tribute, Karen winning at the Caribbean stud table (she did not understand the game but still won) Bill’s tan (can you say lobster?), petting the sharks, Jake’s rib dinner (is the sternum considered a rib?), Cooper and Danny on the water slide, and nearly getting shot on the beach. Oh yes, Lisa chastised an annoying cigar salesman who proceed to flash a 9mm. Lisa gave him what for. As much fun as we had on that trip, being a Catholic country, Lisa asked if they had Easter service. The Hard Rock Resort said no, but wouldn’t you know it. She convinced them to have a service, not only for the guests but for the employee’s working at the resort. ACTS OF RANDOM KINDNESS Lisa believed that we should give of ourselves to others. In Scouting we call it doing a good turn, in the golden rule, do unto others as you would have done unto you, in the movie Evan Almighty, Gods wants Evan and his people to build an ARK! (Acts of Random Kindness). What a concept. It can be big or small, but done with love and smile. Not with boasts of “look what I did” or expectations of getting something in return; but rather because it is the right thing to do at that moment in time. I give you a little secret that Lisa knew. Sometimes the smallest act can have the most impact on the person that you perform it for, sometimes it may help you feel better about yourself the distractions of the problems of your life. For it is in giving that we receive. If we all did this, wouldn’t the world be a better place. Conclusion and Blessing As we leave today, remember how Lisa lived. Do not waste you God given talents, view frustrations and failure as opportunities to make yourself better, strive to achieve your goals, and perform an Act of random kindness. Above all Lisa was a person of faith, embrace it. I would like to close with an Irish prayer called Remembered joy Remembered Joy Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free! I follow the plan God laid for me. I saw His face, I heard His call, I took His hand and left it all… I could not stay another day, To love, to laugh, to work or play; Tasks left undone must stay that way. And if my parting has left a void, Then fill it with remembered joy. A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss… Ah yes, these things I, too, shall miss. My life’s been full, I’ve savoured much: Good times, good friends, a loved-one’s touch. Perhaps my time seemed all too brief – Don’t shorten yours with undue grief. Be not burdened with tears of sorrow, Enjoy the sunshine of the morrow.
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Ashley Stavens posted a condolence
Monday, March 28, 2016
Lisa, As I ventured into the Pelletier's life, I never knew what I would have in store. Practically four and a half years later, I have been blessed with so many people that I can now call my own family- this includes you. You taught me so much about life in the course of those short four years. I will carry on those kind lessons and words for the rest of my life. Thank you for being you and showing that God, love, faith and the ones around you will always help you prevail. I appreciate you and love you. You will be in my thoughts. Until we meet again... Ashley Staves
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Linda (Holmes) Kloess posted a condolence
Monday, March 28, 2016
Dear Lisa, As I read all of these messages I can see how much you touched the lives of so many people. I (like the others) remember the cottage and Chinese food. How crazy that those memories stand out to so many of us. Some great times for sure. God's word tells us "To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord". May you rest in peace in the arms of God. No pain no suffering but perfect love. Until we see eachother again.... You will always be in our hearts- Linda
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Jim & Kae posted a condolence
Monday, March 28, 2016
Our dear Lisa, You have touched so many lives. When you were happy, your smile & laughter could light up a room. People were drawn to you like moths to a flame. Your generosity, kindness, and caring were legendary. Your legacy will live on through all the lives you have impacted & through your bright & caring son Cooper. We will miss you dearly. We are happy you are at peace & no longer in pain. Enjoy the warm & loving embrace of our Lord & your parents. We love you always.
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Elizabeth Critser posted a condolence
Sunday, March 27, 2016
Elizabeth Critser purchased flowers (Peace Eternal Wreath)
Our prayers and thoughts are with you. The Shea Family Cousins. Thom Opar, Beth Critser, Bill and Melinda Shea, Paula and Anthony Panos
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Uncle Fred and Aunt Miriam lit a candle
Sunday, March 27, 2016
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Rest in peace dear Lisa, you are now with Mom & Dad. We will always have fond memories of the days we all spent together at the lake and our Chinese food dinner. God Bless you soul
love uncle Fred & Aunt Miriam
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Barbara (Holmes) Foley posted a condolence
Sunday, March 27, 2016
Lisa, No matter how long the time was in between seeing each other, we could always pick up right where we left off. Born in June, a few days apart, we have always had a special connection. I will always remember the fun we had as kids, sitting around the dinner table with our forks in hand yelling "we want chinese food"! I remember you singing and wished I could sing like that. Your laugh was contagious and your smile lit up the room! Rest in peace knowing how much we all love you. Until we meet again......your JuneBug cousin, Barbara
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Kathy Daniels lit a candle
Saturday, March 26, 2016
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Lisa, the beauty of your spirit will always be etched in my heart. I know you know how much I thought of you and your courageous journey. My prayer is that you're now at peace and resting well. Your light will shine on through Cooper and all those who love you. My soul sees your soul my friend with peace and love. You will truly be missed. Namaste. Kathy
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Mary Liebig posted a condolence
Saturday, March 26, 2016
Dear Jim, I met and knew Lisa quite a few years back when I worked for a local small printing company in Manchester. I remember her as a giving and thoughtful person, always fun to be around. I am very saddened by her passing and offer you and her whole family my sincere sympathy in your loss. May her soul rest in peace. - Mary Liebig, Manchester, CT
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Norman & Charlene Tremaine lit a candle
Friday, March 25, 2016
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Peace be with you Lisa.
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Helen Guest posted a condolence
Friday, March 25, 2016
Helen Guest purchased flowers (Your Light Shines)
Cooper, Monica and Family, You are in our thoughts and prayers. Your friends at St. Timothy's PreSchool
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Theresa (Holmes) Smith lit a candle
Friday, March 25, 2016
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Your light will continue to shine in the memories of those who love you. "A day is never wasted if a memory is made."
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Karen Rothbaum posted a condolence
Friday, March 25, 2016
Lisa, May you rest in peace my friend. You were such a bright light that will shine forever. My heart goes out to Cooper, little Clover, your immediate family and the million friends you had, you were loved. Fly high my friend! Love, Karen & Emma Rothbaum
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Rochelle Roy posted a condolence
Friday, March 25, 2016
I will not be able to attend the funeral because i have recently moved to Colorado for school but i wanted to let you all know that I am sorry for your lose Lisa was an amazing person. I have lots of memories of her from when I was a kid at the lake house and all but she is now at home in the kingdom of heaven no longer in pain. She is smiling down on all of us and hanging out with the rest of the family. I am sure Ben was waiting for her up there to make her feel at home. we will all miss her so much.
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Kevin & Lois Roy posted a condolence
Friday, March 25, 2016
Please know that she rests in peace with our Lord and so many other loved ones. We will truly miss that contagious smile of hers.. You all are in our thoughts and prayers, may God wrap you in his loving arms and hold you tightly. We love you
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Diane Allen posted a condolence
Friday, March 25, 2016
My dear Lisa.....you fought so courageously for 7 years with always a smile on your face. You will be missed greatly by your teal steel magnolias but we know you have your wings and now are out of your pain. You can rest now with other teal sisters and your parents. Love you always.....
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Theresa (Holmes) Smith posted a condolence
Friday, March 25, 2016
Dear Lisa - you fought a courageous battle. You have been my rock through our journey and I will be forever grateful for your love, strength, support, forthrightness, and determination. My heart and prayers go out to Cooper, your immediate family, and dear friends! Rest in Peace. Love you!!!
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Candace Ramirez posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 23, 2016
Candace Ramirez made a donation to OVARIAN CANCER NATIONAL ALLIANCE
My most heartfelt sympathies to Cooper and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Sincerely, Candace Ramirez
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Jackie Albert posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 23, 2016
Jackie Albert made a donation to OVARIAN CANCER NATIONAL ALLIANCE
My deepest sympathy to all of you for your loss. Lisa was a bright light in all our lives and she will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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